Hi (potential fb friend),
How cool are you? On facebook, no less! I got your friend request, and you should know that I share some pretty controversial topics and articles, mostly in the hope that it will stretch some minds and hearts. I'm very gay-affirming, as I realized when Ray disclosed that he was gay that he didn't choose that. He was born with the unique make-up that God gave him, and although he tried his best, it never changed or went away.
Ray and I were stuck with a very difficult choice to face that fact, and I know that no amount of prayer or effort would ever make him straight. He has always lived a good life, and he was a good husband and dad. I have nothing against him AT ALL. Although it has brought great pain to my life, I know that God orchestrated our lives, not any choice that Ray made.
If that is okay with you, I will be glad to add you as a friend. It's not open for dispute, just so you know how I feel. Still want to add me?